Dad's Prostate Cancer
What a year January 2014
After training for 14 years, I hit a mental block we found out Dad had Cancer (Prostate) & told work I need a few days off after being offed more shift, Working as doorman you need to be Focus 110% on Job it's not like I blow my shirt out right, i talked to one of my bosses over this matter, he said you either want to work or you don't, I told him about my dad cancer he said call me next week & I put you back on shift Tez.
shifts seem to come & Go, then months apart Never knowing if the phone was going to Ring how could anyone live like this, my partner never knew if I was going to be bringing in wage from week to week,
Bills still needed to be paid. I was now very down & depress.
There never good time for love one to get cancer But this shocking news ripped my world apart 😓 My Career was just talking off But I didn't expect work to drop me like this. I took the news the worst out of my other brothers, mum dad through I be the strongest.
Did not know if I was coming or going Some days I did not want to eat and did not want to walk out side our Front Door 🚪 My trained was fulling apart & before I knew it months rolled by and weight was coming back on I did not even want to talk on my phone ( sometimes I put it in draw when it rang, our Doctor was very understanding & supporting me.
Then I chatted to guy at my gym about my dad & how I was feeling he helped me big time & told me he dad died week after finding out he had cancer. How sad, but work did not mess him around in fact support him 😎 i started going every other day
the place I loved was gone within my heart & soul, then I set myself goal & went bit more each month. Till I was back
My Gf who now my wife supported me big time and so did our side of the family.
They say it happen in 3s
shifts seem to come & Go, then months apart Never knowing if the phone was going to Ring how could anyone live like this, my partner never knew if I was going to be bringing in wage from week to week,
Bills still needed to be paid. I was now very down & depress.
There never good time for love one to get cancer But this shocking news ripped my world apart 😓 My Career was just talking off But I didn't expect work to drop me like this. I took the news the worst out of my other brothers, mum dad through I be the strongest.
Did not know if I was coming or going Some days I did not want to eat and did not want to walk out side our Front Door 🚪 My trained was fulling apart & before I knew it months rolled by and weight was coming back on I did not even want to talk on my phone ( sometimes I put it in draw when it rang, our Doctor was very understanding & supporting me.
Then I chatted to guy at my gym about my dad & how I was feeling he helped me big time & told me he dad died week after finding out he had cancer. How sad, but work did not mess him around in fact support him 😎 i started going every other day
the place I loved was gone within my heart & soul, then I set myself goal & went bit more each month. Till I was back
My Gf who now my wife supported me big time and so did our side of the family.
They say it happen in 3s
- Dad cancer
- My job
- Mel's Family